These three letters are very important to many in the Department of State. These three letters stand for HOUSE HOLD EFFECTS ~ a.k.a. ~ our stuff.
Christmas came a little early this year, on the Friday before Thanksgiving our house hold effects arrived. Dan and I were so excited. Shortly after he arrived home from work, the delivery men arrived with 3 large wooden crates filled with our things. There were 6 Nigerian workers. One that “drove the truck”~ he stayed inside the cab of the truck while the work was being done; one who was the “man in charge”, he held the paperwork and found a shady place to sit; then there were the other 4 men who actually worked and carried all the smaller boxes into the house.
Before the men could begin, the crates needed to be opened. Each crate was built out of ply-wood, sealed along the edges, and then a metal band was fastened around the entire crate to ensure its safe travel. So……. picture this, (an accident waiting to happen) these 6 men were standing around the crates, one had a pair of dull wire cutters trying to cut through the metal band, one had a crowbar prying the metal band away from the crate and the other 4 were standing RIGHT there, waiting for the metal band to be cut. I saw this and backed up several feet ~ I was ready for the metal to give way and the band to snap; hitting someone. LUCKILY everyone survived. (no OSHA here in Lagos)
We were ready for them…Dan had the paperwork in hand (our inventory from DC as well as the inventory from the pack-out in Ann Arbor), he was to check off the boxes as they were carried into the house. My job was to: 1.) look at the contents of each box,
2.) call off the packing number to Dan so he could check the item number off the list,
3.) then decide in which room I wanted the box placed.
I made my job easier by writing the numbers 1-3 on Post-Its and placing them on the bedroom doors upstairs. That way, all I needed to do was call out a number to the worker and he knew where to place the box. (I know, my compulsive side came out!!)
When the first set of boxes was carried in I thought the workers to be very conscientious. They came through the garage and (before entering the house) removed their shoes. “How nice,” I thought. “Very thoughtful!” But it ended there….when they went back out for the next load of boxes; the workers did not put their shoes back on to walk outside. So. only their feet tracked dirt into the house, not their shoes. Oh well!
In an hour and a half the boxes were unloaded and Dan and I were left with the FUN task of: opening the boxes, unwrapping our things and finding the best place to put everything.
We had a great time!!!! We took a break for dinner and said we would resume in the morning. But then, we looked at each other and said: “Just one more box.” Before we knew it, it was 2:30 a.m. I had a hard time falling asleep. Knowing that I left boxes still unpacked was VERY difficult for me.
We continued throughout the weekend unpacking our things. Finally on Sunday we came up with a strategy and worked on completing one room at a time. We focused on the kitchen. We washed all our dishes and glassware along with all our pots and pans. The kitchen was done!!! Dan was ready to make dinner for the two of us. We were so excited to be back to a normal Sunday ritual.
I took the remainder of the week to complete the unpacking, washing, straightening and organizing.
Yeah!!! It feels more like home!
Tuesday, December 16, 2008
Tuesday, November 25, 2008
Okadas
One of the most interesting and unusual things we have witnessed since moving to Lagos is the use of okadas. An okada is a motorcycle taxi used all around the islands and mainland of Lagos.
The locals stand on a street corner and hail an okada. But not the way one would hail a taxi in New York, instead locals make a noise that is a cross between a hiss and a kissing sound. This alerts the driver of the okada that his services are needed. The okada driver then swings over to the side of the road (even if he needs to make a u-turn) and negotiates a price for the distance that will be traveled. If the price is right, the passenger jumps on the back and away they go. No helmets, no protective jacket, and usually just flip-flops on their feet. Yikes!!!
To add to this, okada drivers make up their own rules of the road (although so does every other local driver!!!!!) There is no such thing as the “right side of the road”. Okadas will share lanes with cars and come up on either side of a car to pass. This is especially challenging when the driver of a car wants to make a turn. Not only does the driver have to look BOTH ways for oncoming traffic, but then has to check side view mirrors to see if an okada is coming up from behind.
Lagos has many traffic issues. This is a city of 15 million people and 1 working traffic light, stop signs have not been introduced to this area, and everyone drives on both sides of the road no matter what direction. Their solution to some traffic problems is to use traffic circles. These do not help. More often that not, they cause greater traffic and we get “go slows”. Lagos’ word for traffic jams.
Here is another amazing practice here in Lagos. While cars sit in a “go slow”, people walk up and down the street, between the cars, selling their wares. It could be bottles of water, mints, gum, plantain chips or our favorite: meat twinkies. (a little to scared to try that!!) If you are not hungry, they also have phone cards, belts, shoes, pirated DVD’s, and sunglasses for sale. Many of these things are carried on the heads of the sellers. (just amazing balance)
So; back to the okadas and the traffic. While all the cars are stopped in the “go slows” the okadas look at it like a slalom run. They move between the cars, not only sharing a lane but also squeezing between the front of one car and the back of another; veering around the merchants selling their wares. Many times I must close my eyes..it is all too close for my comfort.
I will leave you with one more visual to just add to the wonder which is Lagos. Because there are so many okadas, drivers are willing to take more than one passenger to get the fare. But I have also seen okadas with the most unusual kinds of passengers:
Imagine this:
the norm: driver, passenger
the unusual: driver, passenger, passenger
driver, passenger with ladder on his shoulders
driver, lawnmower
driver, lawnmower, passenger
child, driver, child, mother with child strapped to her back
child, driver, child, child, child
and the BEST:
driver, goat, passenger
Needless to say to say, we are not allowed to hop onto an okada.
The locals stand on a street corner and hail an okada. But not the way one would hail a taxi in New York, instead locals make a noise that is a cross between a hiss and a kissing sound. This alerts the driver of the okada that his services are needed. The okada driver then swings over to the side of the road (even if he needs to make a u-turn) and negotiates a price for the distance that will be traveled. If the price is right, the passenger jumps on the back and away they go. No helmets, no protective jacket, and usually just flip-flops on their feet. Yikes!!!
To add to this, okada drivers make up their own rules of the road (although so does every other local driver!!!!!) There is no such thing as the “right side of the road”. Okadas will share lanes with cars and come up on either side of a car to pass. This is especially challenging when the driver of a car wants to make a turn. Not only does the driver have to look BOTH ways for oncoming traffic, but then has to check side view mirrors to see if an okada is coming up from behind.
Lagos has many traffic issues. This is a city of 15 million people and 1 working traffic light, stop signs have not been introduced to this area, and everyone drives on both sides of the road no matter what direction. Their solution to some traffic problems is to use traffic circles. These do not help. More often that not, they cause greater traffic and we get “go slows”. Lagos’ word for traffic jams.
Here is another amazing practice here in Lagos. While cars sit in a “go slow”, people walk up and down the street, between the cars, selling their wares. It could be bottles of water, mints, gum, plantain chips or our favorite: meat twinkies. (a little to scared to try that!!) If you are not hungry, they also have phone cards, belts, shoes, pirated DVD’s, and sunglasses for sale. Many of these things are carried on the heads of the sellers. (just amazing balance)
So; back to the okadas and the traffic. While all the cars are stopped in the “go slows” the okadas look at it like a slalom run. They move between the cars, not only sharing a lane but also squeezing between the front of one car and the back of another; veering around the merchants selling their wares. Many times I must close my eyes..it is all too close for my comfort.
I will leave you with one more visual to just add to the wonder which is Lagos. Because there are so many okadas, drivers are willing to take more than one passenger to get the fare. But I have also seen okadas with the most unusual kinds of passengers:
Imagine this:
the norm: driver, passenger
the unusual: driver, passenger, passenger
driver, passenger with ladder on his shoulders
driver, lawnmower
driver, lawnmower, passenger
child, driver, child, mother with child strapped to her back
child, driver, child, child, child
and the BEST:
driver, goat, passenger
Needless to say to say, we are not allowed to hop onto an okada.
Thursday, November 6, 2008
Our Compound
There are several different housing compounds available here in Lagos. We live on Ikoyi Island in the “Bell Units”; 8 Bell to be specific. Our housing compound has 8 condo-style homes. Each has a small front yard, larger back yard and small patio.
We have a large combination living and dining room, a smaller den for TV viewing, roomy kitchen, laundry room and half bath all on the first floor. Upstairs there are 3 bedrooms and 2 full bathrooms. The master bedroom with walk-in closet and full bath look out over the backyard. We converted one bedroom into an office and scrap-booking area and the other is a spare for any friends or family who wish to visit.
The house is furnished so we did not need to bring any bulky furniture, but slip covers might help to make it homier and more “our own”. (The furniture patterns chosen by the government leave some room for creativity – all the homes within the Foreign Service have one of three upholstery patterns) One new friend told us that when their family moved to Lagos, their children were all excited that the furniture from the previous post was already in their new home.
The arrival of our personal effects will be great. I am sure that once we have our things (familiar things) sprucing up the house; it will feel more like a home. Dan will also be very excited once our things arrive because I will stop moving the furniture around. I just can't get the "right look". I have moved all I can at least twice and I had to ask for his help a couple times as well. He has made the executive decision to STOP MOVING FURNITURE until our things arrive and we know what we have to put away. Hum bug!
Dan has been able to track our car as well as our house hold effects and they all seem close. We are hoping that by the end of the month we will have something….either the car or our stuff would be great. It will be as if Christmas has come early.
We are looking forward to hosting dinner parties and get-togethers once our things arrive. We love cooking and hosting…it should be fun. And if we are fortunate enough to hire a steward we will have the fun of cooking but not have to do the dishes after. Yeah us!!
We have a large combination living and dining room, a smaller den for TV viewing, roomy kitchen, laundry room and half bath all on the first floor. Upstairs there are 3 bedrooms and 2 full bathrooms. The master bedroom with walk-in closet and full bath look out over the backyard. We converted one bedroom into an office and scrap-booking area and the other is a spare for any friends or family who wish to visit.
The house is furnished so we did not need to bring any bulky furniture, but slip covers might help to make it homier and more “our own”. (The furniture patterns chosen by the government leave some room for creativity – all the homes within the Foreign Service have one of three upholstery patterns) One new friend told us that when their family moved to Lagos, their children were all excited that the furniture from the previous post was already in their new home.
The arrival of our personal effects will be great. I am sure that once we have our things (familiar things) sprucing up the house; it will feel more like a home. Dan will also be very excited once our things arrive because I will stop moving the furniture around. I just can't get the "right look". I have moved all I can at least twice and I had to ask for his help a couple times as well. He has made the executive decision to STOP MOVING FURNITURE until our things arrive and we know what we have to put away. Hum bug!
Dan has been able to track our car as well as our house hold effects and they all seem close. We are hoping that by the end of the month we will have something….either the car or our stuff would be great. It will be as if Christmas has come early.
We are looking forward to hosting dinner parties and get-togethers once our things arrive. We love cooking and hosting…it should be fun. And if we are fortunate enough to hire a steward we will have the fun of cooking but not have to do the dishes after. Yeah us!!
GQ
We are very fortunate here in Lagos. We have the American Club which we can visit freely. The American Club is referred to as the GQ or Guest Quarters. It houses a small hotel, bar, restaurant, pool, commissary, small gym and tennis court. As Diplomats (and spouses), these amenities are at our disposal.
When Dan and I first arrived, the lack of Internet was quite frustrating. But then we discovered that the bar is open daily and provides free Internet access. We would frequently walk to the GQ and sit in the bar to check email and catch up on news from home. The bar also provides special events each week. We, along with many others from the consulate, enjoy our Friday happy hours most of all. There the margaritas flow freely and there is much relaxing conversation.
The restaurant has special events as well. Every Sunday a brunch buffet is offered. Fresh fruit, cereal, cold cuts, sausage, bacon, grits, and potatoes are offered along with made to order omelet and waffle stations. The big event for the restaurant is Thursday night: Tex-Mex. Again it is buffet style and really quite good. Every month they offer a special dinner. In October they featured traditional Indian cuisine and this month they are offering a Lebanese meal. I have heard they are quite good, but expensive.
The pool is a big draw for so many. We often sit poolside, read a book, and take a dip when it becomes too hot. It is this luxury that makes me forget the time of the year. I am just not used to sunbathing the day before Halloween. (suffer! suffer! suffer!) The pool is also huge draw for families. Parents often throw birthday parties poolside. On those days we try to steer clear…. many more little ones running and splashing.
The commissary is a small grocery store. Sadly, the stock is random. I have learned that it is good idea to buy the items I want when I see them, because they might not be there the next time I walk in the door. We have found comfort foods at the commissary; that is a nice treat.
We are using the gym and tennis court more frequently. Both Dan and I are taking tennis lessons. I am learning the game and Dan is strengthening his skills. The GQ is organizing a doubles tournament for tennis. Dan will probably participate; I am going to wait until I know the game a bit better. But it is great that the GQ provides so many different ways to meet new friends.
When Dan and I first arrived, the lack of Internet was quite frustrating. But then we discovered that the bar is open daily and provides free Internet access. We would frequently walk to the GQ and sit in the bar to check email and catch up on news from home. The bar also provides special events each week. We, along with many others from the consulate, enjoy our Friday happy hours most of all. There the margaritas flow freely and there is much relaxing conversation.
The restaurant has special events as well. Every Sunday a brunch buffet is offered. Fresh fruit, cereal, cold cuts, sausage, bacon, grits, and potatoes are offered along with made to order omelet and waffle stations. The big event for the restaurant is Thursday night: Tex-Mex. Again it is buffet style and really quite good. Every month they offer a special dinner. In October they featured traditional Indian cuisine and this month they are offering a Lebanese meal. I have heard they are quite good, but expensive.
The pool is a big draw for so many. We often sit poolside, read a book, and take a dip when it becomes too hot. It is this luxury that makes me forget the time of the year. I am just not used to sunbathing the day before Halloween. (suffer! suffer! suffer!) The pool is also huge draw for families. Parents often throw birthday parties poolside. On those days we try to steer clear…. many more little ones running and splashing.
The commissary is a small grocery store. Sadly, the stock is random. I have learned that it is good idea to buy the items I want when I see them, because they might not be there the next time I walk in the door. We have found comfort foods at the commissary; that is a nice treat.
We are using the gym and tennis court more frequently. Both Dan and I are taking tennis lessons. I am learning the game and Dan is strengthening his skills. The GQ is organizing a doubles tournament for tennis. Dan will probably participate; I am going to wait until I know the game a bit better. But it is great that the GQ provides so many different ways to meet new friends.
Sunday, November 2, 2008
Halloween Party 2008
Hurray for us!!! 3 days before Halloween and our costumes arrive. I can hardly wait to get home and check out our costumes. Dan didn’t want to go as a “couple” so we each picked costumes that best match our personalities…… drum roll please…. Dan chose Indiana Jones and I chose Super Girl!!
Just let me say, the pictures and models that are used on Target’s site are a bit misleading. The costumes were not exactly what I had pictured. Super Girl is cheesy and Dan’s is just ridiculous.
Super Girl has the blue body suit with red cape and skirt and shiny gold belt. And the big “S” on the chest. Good so far. Then I try it on. Most of the dress fits, but the top just gapes open. (Super Girl must have a triple D bust) I guess I will have to wear a tank top and my best push up. And then, you’ll love this, the boots! They aren't really boots; they are more like silky-nylon like socks. BUT they are red and only go from knee to top of my foot. There is a strap (like one would find on stretch pants) on the bottom. The idea is that this fits over Super Girl's red stilettos. And then the sock-book looks like her boots. I think it is to be a little sexy. Sadly, I do not have red shoes. I only have red sandals .It will have to work. (This is how Super Girl dresses for the equator.) It will be corny. Go figure. A silly Halloween costume
Dan's Indiana Jones costume is so cheap. I knew it would not be a real leather jacket, but nonetheless, I was hoping for a little more. He has a felt-like jacket that has a nice insignia on the left breast that says "Indiana Jones" (it will probable help). The hat is the same felt-like material. Because it has been stuffed in its plastic wrapping for the trip to Lagos, the hat is flat. I am not sure we will be able to bring it back to life; but maybe a few staples will help. It surely could not hurt. Here is the best though....are you sitting down??? With the cheap hat and jacket came a pair of stretch pants; very similar to the parachute pants of the 80’s. Dan has chosen to wear his own pants. What a hum-bug!!
The party is Friday night at the American Club. We arrive with Miss New Jersey and Marilyn Monroe. Many friends are already there: Charlie Brown, the corrections officer with her prisoner, Prince Charming and the Wicked Queen from Sleeping Beauty. The party is just starting, but within an hour the music is pumping and everyone is dancing. Everyone had a SPOOK-TACULAR time!!!
Just let me say, the pictures and models that are used on Target’s site are a bit misleading. The costumes were not exactly what I had pictured. Super Girl is cheesy and Dan’s is just ridiculous.
Super Girl has the blue body suit with red cape and skirt and shiny gold belt. And the big “S” on the chest. Good so far. Then I try it on. Most of the dress fits, but the top just gapes open. (Super Girl must have a triple D bust) I guess I will have to wear a tank top and my best push up. And then, you’ll love this, the boots! They aren't really boots; they are more like silky-nylon like socks. BUT they are red and only go from knee to top of my foot. There is a strap (like one would find on stretch pants) on the bottom. The idea is that this fits over Super Girl's red stilettos. And then the sock-book looks like her boots. I think it is to be a little sexy. Sadly, I do not have red shoes. I only have red sandals .It will have to work. (This is how Super Girl dresses for the equator.) It will be corny. Go figure. A silly Halloween costume
Dan's Indiana Jones costume is so cheap. I knew it would not be a real leather jacket, but nonetheless, I was hoping for a little more. He has a felt-like jacket that has a nice insignia on the left breast that says "Indiana Jones" (it will probable help). The hat is the same felt-like material. Because it has been stuffed in its plastic wrapping for the trip to Lagos, the hat is flat. I am not sure we will be able to bring it back to life; but maybe a few staples will help. It surely could not hurt. Here is the best though....are you sitting down??? With the cheap hat and jacket came a pair of stretch pants; very similar to the parachute pants of the 80’s. Dan has chosen to wear his own pants. What a hum-bug!!
The party is Friday night at the American Club. We arrive with Miss New Jersey and Marilyn Monroe. Many friends are already there: Charlie Brown, the corrections officer with her prisoner, Prince Charming and the Wicked Queen from Sleeping Beauty. The party is just starting, but within an hour the music is pumping and everyone is dancing. Everyone had a SPOOK-TACULAR time!!!
Sunday, October 19, 2008
The Shopping Experience
We made arrangements with some new friends: David and his wife, Renee, to take us to the 3 major shopping areas to buy some things. Dan and I are not really prepared with a list, nor are we ready for the prices. Things are so expensive. (between $9-$12 for a box of cereal!!) We buy very little, only basics we know we will use.
The first store we went to is Goodies. It has 2 levels. The bottom level is a simple grocery store with a cheese counter, meat counter and bakery. We are not ready to experiment too much so we stick with what we know. There are some items and brand names we know and others which are imported. We try both. The upper level of Goodies carries simple furniture and home decorations along with household items. But, again, very expensive.
Next we battle traffic and go to Park n Shop. The layout is similar to that of Goodies with two levels. Groceries on the first level, but I did not travel upstairs to see what is available there. Here we can buy a phone for me to use locally. They can sell us the phone, but we must go somewhere else to buy minutes for the phone.
Lastly we go to the The Palms Mall. There are many different stores as well as a coffee shop and movie theater. We look into one store called GAME. We are told it is a lot like Target, but we do not stay to look around. Another popular store in the mall is Shop-Rite. Again, another grocery store. Here there is a greater selection of fruits and vegetables along with staple items and cleaning products. The crowds are crazy. None of the stores take credit, so everyone must walk around with wads of cash to pay for their purchases.
Here in Nigeria we use the Naira as the form of currency. They come in bills and some coins, but most stores to not accept coins. Notes come in denominations of N5, N10, N20, N50, N100, N200, N500, N1000. Just to give you and idea; N1000 is about $8.50. We were told to keep our money separated into different pockets, just to protect ourselves and allow for “dashing” when we need to. Dashing is paying a little something for a service. It could be the area boys who carry your bags, or an attendant who helps to stop traffic so you can back out of a parking spot.
Later in the afternoon, Dan and I do venture out across the street to buy a few vegetables from a local woman who has a stand. Another new thing… soak all the fruits and vegetables in water with “Milton” (a bleach solution) for 20 minutes then soak in clean, distilled water, then allow to dry. We probably paid too much, but we did not do a very good job of making our point. We will have to get better at bartering. Bought apples, a cucumber, and a pineapple that smelled so sweet and delicious.
Things are different, but the more we get around, the more accustomed we become to the mannerism of the culture.
The first store we went to is Goodies. It has 2 levels. The bottom level is a simple grocery store with a cheese counter, meat counter and bakery. We are not ready to experiment too much so we stick with what we know. There are some items and brand names we know and others which are imported. We try both. The upper level of Goodies carries simple furniture and home decorations along with household items. But, again, very expensive.
Next we battle traffic and go to Park n Shop. The layout is similar to that of Goodies with two levels. Groceries on the first level, but I did not travel upstairs to see what is available there. Here we can buy a phone for me to use locally. They can sell us the phone, but we must go somewhere else to buy minutes for the phone.
Lastly we go to the The Palms Mall. There are many different stores as well as a coffee shop and movie theater. We look into one store called GAME. We are told it is a lot like Target, but we do not stay to look around. Another popular store in the mall is Shop-Rite. Again, another grocery store. Here there is a greater selection of fruits and vegetables along with staple items and cleaning products. The crowds are crazy. None of the stores take credit, so everyone must walk around with wads of cash to pay for their purchases.
Here in Nigeria we use the Naira as the form of currency. They come in bills and some coins, but most stores to not accept coins. Notes come in denominations of N5, N10, N20, N50, N100, N200, N500, N1000. Just to give you and idea; N1000 is about $8.50. We were told to keep our money separated into different pockets, just to protect ourselves and allow for “dashing” when we need to. Dashing is paying a little something for a service. It could be the area boys who carry your bags, or an attendant who helps to stop traffic so you can back out of a parking spot.
Later in the afternoon, Dan and I do venture out across the street to buy a few vegetables from a local woman who has a stand. Another new thing… soak all the fruits and vegetables in water with “Milton” (a bleach solution) for 20 minutes then soak in clean, distilled water, then allow to dry. We probably paid too much, but we did not do a very good job of making our point. We will have to get better at bartering. Bought apples, a cucumber, and a pineapple that smelled so sweet and delicious.
Things are different, but the more we get around, the more accustomed we become to the mannerism of the culture.
Wednesday, October 15, 2008
Our First Impressions
We arrived at the Lagos airport late Thursday afternoon. The airport is run down; an old, rusted out plane sits off to the side of the landing strip. It looks like something one would see in an old movie. (But it is real!)
We moved through the airport which is eerily quiet. We met the sponsors needed to expedite our time in the airport. There are 5 of us who just arrived at the airport who will be traveling together to the island of Ikoyi: the two of us, a Marine, and 2 Navy officers. I am feeling much better about the whole situation. The armored car that takes us across the mainland and over to the island helps as well!
When we walk out of the airport, we meet Dan’s office sponsor, Erin. She is so energetic. It is easy to see that she loves being in Africa and is taking advantage of her time here.
The trip into town was eye-opening. We were in an armored van. The streets were just as crowded as all the videos show. Traffic is slow with cars just pushing in wherever they can get an inch. LOTS of stop and go. Many pot holes as we get closer to our residence. People line the streets selling whatever they can. Shacks and falling down buildings served as homes. There are groups of people gathered around fires, cooking a meal and sharing with those around.
Motorcycles are all over the streets. There are no real traffic rules. They do not paint any traffic lanes, there are no stop lights or stop signs (and even if there were, they would only be a suggestion) these motorcycles share the lanes with cars, coming up on either side. I find out later that the motorcycles are a taxi service for the locals. (No helmets or protective wear, and everyone riding is wearing flip flops.)
Once we arrive on our island, so many more streets have huge pot holes. Cars are swerving around these holes; moving into oncoming traffic. It is a little scary. I had a pretty tight grip on the seat in front of me. (A little white knuckled!!)
We arrived at our new home in a relatively short period of time. There our social sponsor, Deanie, was busy setting up the necessary household items from the welcome kit. (sheets, pots, pans, dishes, etc.) Deanie ordered Thai and we had dinner together. After she left we fell into bed.
It was a very long day. But we are in Lagos!!
Our adventure begins!
We moved through the airport which is eerily quiet. We met the sponsors needed to expedite our time in the airport. There are 5 of us who just arrived at the airport who will be traveling together to the island of Ikoyi: the two of us, a Marine, and 2 Navy officers. I am feeling much better about the whole situation. The armored car that takes us across the mainland and over to the island helps as well!
When we walk out of the airport, we meet Dan’s office sponsor, Erin. She is so energetic. It is easy to see that she loves being in Africa and is taking advantage of her time here.
The trip into town was eye-opening. We were in an armored van. The streets were just as crowded as all the videos show. Traffic is slow with cars just pushing in wherever they can get an inch. LOTS of stop and go. Many pot holes as we get closer to our residence. People line the streets selling whatever they can. Shacks and falling down buildings served as homes. There are groups of people gathered around fires, cooking a meal and sharing with those around.
Motorcycles are all over the streets. There are no real traffic rules. They do not paint any traffic lanes, there are no stop lights or stop signs (and even if there were, they would only be a suggestion) these motorcycles share the lanes with cars, coming up on either side. I find out later that the motorcycles are a taxi service for the locals. (No helmets or protective wear, and everyone riding is wearing flip flops.)
Once we arrive on our island, so many more streets have huge pot holes. Cars are swerving around these holes; moving into oncoming traffic. It is a little scary. I had a pretty tight grip on the seat in front of me. (A little white knuckled!!)
We arrived at our new home in a relatively short period of time. There our social sponsor, Deanie, was busy setting up the necessary household items from the welcome kit. (sheets, pots, pans, dishes, etc.) Deanie ordered Thai and we had dinner together. After she left we fell into bed.
It was a very long day. But we are in Lagos!!
Our adventure begins!
Saturday, October 4, 2008
Ahhh, Paris! Ooo la la!
Wednesday morning we arrived in Paris. (Earlier than we had anticipated, lucky us.) We made it through customs and retrieved our luggage without any problems. But, because of the number of bags we carried, we had to switch taxis at the airport. Our first driver could not make all the bags fit and still leave room for us.
We arrived at our hotel located on the fringes of the Latin Quarter. We were too early to check in so we left our bags and went looking for breakfast. Even with the sun shining brightly, the weather was much cooler than we had expected. After our cafés, baguettes with jam, and croissants we went in search of warmer outerwear. We did not think we would be buying coats and sweaters in Paris, but my, they helped to keep us warm.
We spent a good portion of the morning just wandering the streets, taking pictures, and looking into the shops. We found our favorite crepe stand and enjoyed a delicious banana and Nutella crepe. We bought tickets for an afternoon boat tour along the Seine. It was lovely! The sun warmed us as we sat in the back of the boat enjoying the sights and trying not to fall asleep. Jet lag was hitting us!!
Instead of giving in and taking a nap, we went back to the hotel to freshen up. That did the trick. (But I just don’t know how to “neatly” take a shower without a shower curtain and not flood the bathroom!!!!) Nonetheless, we were rejuvenated and ready to head back down to the Latin Quarter. Jumping on the Metro, we walked along the cobblestone streets, found a quaint café where we enjoyed a glass of wine and watched people heading home.
Again we took to the streets in search of a restaurant which was serving outside along the sidewalks. We found a charming restaurant where we ordered mussels, bread, and wine. What a perfect end to a perfect day!!
The lack of sleep caught up to us and we returned to the hotel for an early night. Morning came too quickly, we were up and moving and eating breakfast by 7:00am, in order to catch a taxi ride to the airport.
Our flight was just a little late, (because we were shuttled from the jet way over to the plane) but no major difficulties. Flight was easy. (Another 6 hour flight) We arrived in Lagos at 4:30 local time. (5 hours ahead of EST)
And now Lagos, Nigeia…………
Thinking of you,
Chris and Dan
We arrived at our hotel located on the fringes of the Latin Quarter. We were too early to check in so we left our bags and went looking for breakfast. Even with the sun shining brightly, the weather was much cooler than we had expected. After our cafés, baguettes with jam, and croissants we went in search of warmer outerwear. We did not think we would be buying coats and sweaters in Paris, but my, they helped to keep us warm.
We spent a good portion of the morning just wandering the streets, taking pictures, and looking into the shops. We found our favorite crepe stand and enjoyed a delicious banana and Nutella crepe. We bought tickets for an afternoon boat tour along the Seine. It was lovely! The sun warmed us as we sat in the back of the boat enjoying the sights and trying not to fall asleep. Jet lag was hitting us!!
Instead of giving in and taking a nap, we went back to the hotel to freshen up. That did the trick. (But I just don’t know how to “neatly” take a shower without a shower curtain and not flood the bathroom!!!!) Nonetheless, we were rejuvenated and ready to head back down to the Latin Quarter. Jumping on the Metro, we walked along the cobblestone streets, found a quaint café where we enjoyed a glass of wine and watched people heading home.
Again we took to the streets in search of a restaurant which was serving outside along the sidewalks. We found a charming restaurant where we ordered mussels, bread, and wine. What a perfect end to a perfect day!!
The lack of sleep caught up to us and we returned to the hotel for an early night. Morning came too quickly, we were up and moving and eating breakfast by 7:00am, in order to catch a taxi ride to the airport.
Our flight was just a little late, (because we were shuttled from the jet way over to the plane) but no major difficulties. Flight was easy. (Another 6 hour flight) We arrived in Lagos at 4:30 local time. (5 hours ahead of EST)
And now Lagos, Nigeia…………
Thinking of you,
Chris and Dan
The Big Apple
Sunday, September 14, 2008.
We arrived in NYC early Sunday morning. Flight was easy, taxi ride to our hotel, not so easy. The taxi had only 2 gears: really fast and STOP! Our driver also enjoyed driving between the lanes. My best guess was that it gave him greater opportunities to jump from lane to lane. (Bet you did not know that taxis could jump, did you???) But the ride had our hearts beating rapidly in our chests and our adrenaline pumping; we were ready for a beautiful day in The Big Apple.
Sunday was sunny and HOT. We were able to walk the streets and enjoy the sights. We started out by strolling down 48th to Broadway.
Lucky us!! The annual event of “Broadway on Broadway” was taking place. Actors, actresses and a live band performed top songs from this year’s productions. The streets were closed off; people gathered on the bleachers (set up for this event) lined the streets, and sang along with the performers. It was a great afternoon. We were so inspired; we bought tickets to see a show. We saw “Avenue Q!” on Monday night. As Dan described it to me, “It is Sesame Street for adults!!” Really cute! Catchy tunes! Very funny!! (Not for the faint of heart)
Later that evening we met up with Ed who took the train in from Albany. (Ed is a college roommate of Dan’s). He was only in for a few hours so we made the most of our time together. We went to a wine and cheese restaurant where the cheese was incredible, the wine was wonderful, and our waiter was snooty. We thought we were in Paris already. Then, to try something new, we went over to a Korean BBQ for dinner. That was fun! I highly suggest you try it!
Monday, Dan was in training. I tried to “be seen” on the Today Show, but it was not to be my time in the spotlight. Oh well, maybe some time soon!
Later, just by chance, I was able to meet with Jenn’s sisters-in-law. Annie and Jill flew in from California to visit friends. What a great surprise! We walked Madison and 5th Avenues looking for the perfect little purchase. Nothing stopped us until we went into Tiffany’s. Only Annie walked out with “the little blue bag”! Lucky girl!!!
Later when Dan was back, we took time to walk through Central Park. It is such a wonderful place to go and TOTALLY forget you are in the middle of a huge city. We then returned to the hotel to prep for dinner and the show. Again, it was a fantastic time.
Tuesday we woke to clouds and a much cooler day. We went for breakfast then walked the streets. Lunch was in a little café as we watched the city hustle around us. By 2:00 we were at the airport for Dan’s second day of consultations. In preparation for our time in Paris, I chose a seat near a crepe stand to wait for Dan. Ooo la la!
Our time in New York was just wonderful. It was a very nice way to spend our last 2 days in the US. Oh my.
Sadly we say “good-bye” to our family and friends, or better yet, we will say “see you all again soon.” Please know that you are in our thoughts. We will miss you terribly. Be sure to keep in touch!
Take care, Dan and Chris
Talk to you again soon from Paris!!
We arrived in NYC early Sunday morning. Flight was easy, taxi ride to our hotel, not so easy. The taxi had only 2 gears: really fast and STOP! Our driver also enjoyed driving between the lanes. My best guess was that it gave him greater opportunities to jump from lane to lane. (Bet you did not know that taxis could jump, did you???) But the ride had our hearts beating rapidly in our chests and our adrenaline pumping; we were ready for a beautiful day in The Big Apple.
Sunday was sunny and HOT. We were able to walk the streets and enjoy the sights. We started out by strolling down 48th to Broadway.
Lucky us!! The annual event of “Broadway on Broadway” was taking place. Actors, actresses and a live band performed top songs from this year’s productions. The streets were closed off; people gathered on the bleachers (set up for this event) lined the streets, and sang along with the performers. It was a great afternoon. We were so inspired; we bought tickets to see a show. We saw “Avenue Q!” on Monday night. As Dan described it to me, “It is Sesame Street for adults!!” Really cute! Catchy tunes! Very funny!! (Not for the faint of heart)
Later that evening we met up with Ed who took the train in from Albany. (Ed is a college roommate of Dan’s). He was only in for a few hours so we made the most of our time together. We went to a wine and cheese restaurant where the cheese was incredible, the wine was wonderful, and our waiter was snooty. We thought we were in Paris already. Then, to try something new, we went over to a Korean BBQ for dinner. That was fun! I highly suggest you try it!
Monday, Dan was in training. I tried to “be seen” on the Today Show, but it was not to be my time in the spotlight. Oh well, maybe some time soon!
Later, just by chance, I was able to meet with Jenn’s sisters-in-law. Annie and Jill flew in from California to visit friends. What a great surprise! We walked Madison and 5th Avenues looking for the perfect little purchase. Nothing stopped us until we went into Tiffany’s. Only Annie walked out with “the little blue bag”! Lucky girl!!!
Later when Dan was back, we took time to walk through Central Park. It is such a wonderful place to go and TOTALLY forget you are in the middle of a huge city. We then returned to the hotel to prep for dinner and the show. Again, it was a fantastic time.
Tuesday we woke to clouds and a much cooler day. We went for breakfast then walked the streets. Lunch was in a little café as we watched the city hustle around us. By 2:00 we were at the airport for Dan’s second day of consultations. In preparation for our time in Paris, I chose a seat near a crepe stand to wait for Dan. Ooo la la!
Our time in New York was just wonderful. It was a very nice way to spend our last 2 days in the US. Oh my.
Sadly we say “good-bye” to our family and friends, or better yet, we will say “see you all again soon.” Please know that you are in our thoughts. We will miss you terribly. Be sure to keep in touch!
Take care, Dan and Chris
Talk to you again soon from Paris!!
Monday, September 29, 2008
All's Well In Lagos
Just a quick note to tell you that Chris and I are aware of the e-mail sent out Saturday and that despite its message, all is well. Our apologies that you were bothered with more spam.
There seems to have been no real mischief outside of losing access to my hotmail account.
I will hope that each of you will appreciate the fact that even in distress, I would write a more coherent message than the one you received. I would never send a broadcast e-mail without proofreading it, even if writing it at the point of a gun.
Chris has more posts to publish. But, alas, the only Internet access I have for the moment is at work.
More soon.
There seems to have been no real mischief outside of losing access to my hotmail account.
I will hope that each of you will appreciate the fact that even in distress, I would write a more coherent message than the one you received. I would never send a broadcast e-mail without proofreading it, even if writing it at the point of a gun.
Chris has more posts to publish. But, alas, the only Internet access I have for the moment is at work.
More soon.
Wednesday, August 20, 2008
Our last few weeks in DC....
Well, it is starting to feel real.
OMG, just 3 weeks away!!!!!
On
I am so glad I made a working check list. It has been so helpful. Dan and I have been extremely busy making appointments and completing as many things as we can, so we don't run into doing things in the "13th" hour. It looks like we will be sending the car sooner than we thought. Probably, next week. They say the sooner we can get it to the
We have finished with our shots, and have received our Malaria pills. All medical appointments are finished!! Yahoo!!
We are reviewing that list and narrowing the number of items we will have shipped to
Along with our purchases, Mom and Dad have been kind enough to take a trip to Sam’s for us. So along with our items, we will also have all the products they bought for us as well. Sadly, we are running out of room. Soon, there will be single pathways between the door and living room, and from the living room to the bed. Not much extra room to work with. Tight fit!!!!!
Great Way To See The City
So, Dan and I decided that it would be a good idea to enjoy this beautiful city while we are still here. What better way than to take a tour? But not just any tour; we booked a Twilight Tour on Segways. (You know; those cool, 2-wheel, self-balancing, electric vehicles. Police use them at malls and airports for easy transportation)
TOO MUCH FUN!!! We highly recommend the experience!!!!
Last Sunday evening we toured the downtown area of
We jumped on, one-by-one, and got a feel for how they worked. Dan was first. He did a great job. He looked smooth and natural. I, too, thought it was easy to become accustomed to the maneuverability of the Segway. Once we were all ready (there were 8 of us) she turned on our Segways, helped us to jump on, and off we went. It was a great time.
The key, she said, is to use your feet and toes. Press your toes down to move forward and then lean back on your heels to slow down and move backwards.We had to start at “turtle pace” until we became more comfortable. Then she let us go!!!!
If you have an opportunity to ride a Segway, do it!!! It is a great time. It does not take long to get a feel for how it moves and it is so exhilarating!! Be sure to take a look at the pictures we have posted.
We are trying our best to take advantage of our last few weeks here in DC.
I think we are doing a pretty good job!!!
Wednesday, July 9, 2008
What happens now?
It is hard to believe that Dan and his classmates were sworn into the Foreign Service almost 2 weeks ago. So what happens now?
Well, sadly, the class has split into their individual studies. Some are starting language lessons, others are taking security classes, while others are enrolled in area studies. We try to get together for movies, parties, concerts, and happy hours, just to keep in touch!
Dan has been in a class focusing on Sub-Saharan Africa. Through lectures, movies, field trips and panel discussions Dan has learned much of the area. I met one of his instructors during a visit to the institute to view a movie on Lagos. He was very kind and invited me to the panel discussion at the end of the week. Luckily for us, one of the participants just returned from Lagos. I am looking forward to the discussion. Maybe we can have some extra time to sit down and talk...get the inside scoop.
As usual, while Dan is in class I am busy reading and making more lists. I have lists of things we have to do, lists of things we need to buy, lists of forms we need to fill out, and lists of shots we need to get. Just to name a few.
Today I took a step in "checking off" one of the items on my list. I went to the clinic. When I told the nurse where we were going she printed out a list of (no kidding) 9 shots we need to have, not to mention the malaria pills we have to take. I, luckily, had two of the shots recently and did not need them again.
So she looks at the list and says, "Well, we should do 4 today." Of course my mind is yelling, "REALLY!!!!! FOUR!!!!!"
No problem.
She decides that two in each arm would be best. That way I will have difficulty lifting both arms by the end of the evening. I put on a brave face, look away from the needle and give her my arm. Ouch! x4!!
I'm glad I can still use the key board.
Until next time..... have a great evening.
(I'm going to ice my arms!)
Well, sadly, the class has split into their individual studies. Some are starting language lessons, others are taking security classes, while others are enrolled in area studies. We try to get together for movies, parties, concerts, and happy hours, just to keep in touch!
Dan has been in a class focusing on Sub-Saharan Africa. Through lectures, movies, field trips and panel discussions Dan has learned much of the area. I met one of his instructors during a visit to the institute to view a movie on Lagos. He was very kind and invited me to the panel discussion at the end of the week. Luckily for us, one of the participants just returned from Lagos. I am looking forward to the discussion. Maybe we can have some extra time to sit down and talk...get the inside scoop.
As usual, while Dan is in class I am busy reading and making more lists. I have lists of things we have to do, lists of things we need to buy, lists of forms we need to fill out, and lists of shots we need to get. Just to name a few.
Today I took a step in "checking off" one of the items on my list. I went to the clinic. When I told the nurse where we were going she printed out a list of (no kidding) 9 shots we need to have, not to mention the malaria pills we have to take. I, luckily, had two of the shots recently and did not need them again.
So she looks at the list and says, "Well, we should do 4 today." Of course my mind is yelling, "REALLY!!!!! FOUR!!!!!"
No problem.
She decides that two in each arm would be best. That way I will have difficulty lifting both arms by the end of the evening. I put on a brave face, look away from the needle and give her my arm. Ouch! x4!!
I'm glad I can still use the key board.
Until next time..... have a great evening.
(I'm going to ice my arms!)
Sunday, June 29, 2008
The "Swearing In" Ceremony...
On Friday, June 27, 2008, Dan and his fellow officers were sworn into the State Department.
The day began with family and friends arriving at the Harry S. Truman Building for the ceremony. There, we were all scanned and verified before entering. After we were given our official badges (stickers), we were escorted to the reception hall. The room was filled with decorations... all red, white and blue. We were offered breakfast treats, beverages (the usual coffee, tea, and juice as well as champagne for those who were feeling a little more celebratory) and sweets.
One of Dan's classmates, Brooke, took the time to create a wonderful representation of where each classmate would be going. With a blown up map of the world, she marked each post with a push pin and then aligned each classmate's photo to correspond with the push pin. It was wonderful to see so many of the countries being touched by the efforts of this class.
We had an opportunity to meet many family member's and friends. All were so proud! Dan is so fortunate to have such a great group with whom he can study and work.
Then we began finling into the auditorium. 70 Foreign Service Officers as well as 82 Specialists were sworn in by Ambassador Patrick F. Kennedy. His remarks were inspirational and brief. Then the two groups were asked to rise.
With his right hand in the air, Dan (along with all the others) gave the official "Oath of Office".
It was all very moving. A proud moment for many of us!!
After, most classmates went in different directions celebrating with family and friends in their own special ways. Dan and I did as well; taking quiet time to be together as the impact of our new adventure really hit home.
Now the class is split into many different areas as each begins specific study for his/her new post. Dan starts bright and early Monday morning learning about the region in Africa where we will be living. Then on to security training and consular training. It will be a very busy 2-1/2 months.
And what will I be doing?? I will be creating lists, making phone calls, buying needed supplies, and preparing notes for all we need to know for the move. I think it will be a very busy 2-1/2 months for me as well.
Take care!
The day began with family and friends arriving at the Harry S. Truman Building for the ceremony. There, we were all scanned and verified before entering. After we were given our official badges (stickers), we were escorted to the reception hall. The room was filled with decorations... all red, white and blue. We were offered breakfast treats, beverages (the usual coffee, tea, and juice as well as champagne for those who were feeling a little more celebratory) and sweets.
One of Dan's classmates, Brooke, took the time to create a wonderful representation of where each classmate would be going. With a blown up map of the world, she marked each post with a push pin and then aligned each classmate's photo to correspond with the push pin. It was wonderful to see so many of the countries being touched by the efforts of this class.
We had an opportunity to meet many family member's and friends. All were so proud! Dan is so fortunate to have such a great group with whom he can study and work.
Then we began finling into the auditorium. 70 Foreign Service Officers as well as 82 Specialists were sworn in by Ambassador Patrick F. Kennedy. His remarks were inspirational and brief. Then the two groups were asked to rise.
With his right hand in the air, Dan (along with all the others) gave the official "Oath of Office".
It was all very moving. A proud moment for many of us!!
After, most classmates went in different directions celebrating with family and friends in their own special ways. Dan and I did as well; taking quiet time to be together as the impact of our new adventure really hit home.
Now the class is split into many different areas as each begins specific study for his/her new post. Dan starts bright and early Monday morning learning about the region in Africa where we will be living. Then on to security training and consular training. It will be a very busy 2-1/2 months.
And what will I be doing?? I will be creating lists, making phone calls, buying needed supplies, and preparing notes for all we need to know for the move. I think it will be a very busy 2-1/2 months for me as well.
Take care!
Monday, June 23, 2008
And our story begins..... Flag Day
On Friday, June 20 the 139th, A-100 class celebrated FLAG DAY!!
This is quite an exciting day for both the students and families alike.
Everyone can feel the excitement in the air. Friends and family gather in the
old gym on the Foreign Service Institute campus.
Then the ceremony begins.
Ambassadors and others from the institute, who play important roles in
the instruction and guidance of the class, come walking in with 70+ flags displayed.
Each flag represents a country where one of the students will be assigned.
At this point the entire gym erupts into loud cheers and applause.
Next, the ambassador leading the ceremony begins by holding one of the flags high
over head. The class yells out the country that the flag represents, and then they name
the city. Once the destination is established, the ambassador calls the name of the new
Junior Officer who is assigned to that post.
There is screaming, jumping, and running to the front as the new officer receives his/her
flag. Hand shakes and hugs are shared by many.
Of course, I have my cheat sheet. I have a list of the countries we have bid high. Next to
each I have drawn that country's flag. Now, I just wait. As flags are held, and officers are
called, I continue to cross off those countries which are no longer available to us.
I am becoming quite nervous. (Not many of our "high" countries are still on my list.)
After 2/3 of the class has been called, (and we are down to 1 high flag left on our list!)
FINALLY the ambassador holds up the flag for Nigeria.
The city of Lagos is named, and Dan's name is announced.
I was in shell-shock. It did not hit me until that very moment that we are now moving to
Africa. I think I am going to faint. But, all is well. We are both very happy with our post.
We have our assignment and Dan starts different areas of training right after
the "swearing in" ceremony next Friday.
We are scheduled to leave for Lagos, Nigeria in mid-September.
This will be a very busy time as we gather information, fill in countless forms for
our move, and begin shopping for all those things we think we cannot live without.
But the beauty is that I have ample opportunities to make MANY more lists!!!
Stories and updates to continue...
This is quite an exciting day for both the students and families alike.
Everyone can feel the excitement in the air. Friends and family gather in the
old gym on the Foreign Service Institute campus.
Then the ceremony begins.
Ambassadors and others from the institute, who play important roles in
the instruction and guidance of the class, come walking in with 70+ flags displayed.
Each flag represents a country where one of the students will be assigned.
At this point the entire gym erupts into loud cheers and applause.
Next, the ambassador leading the ceremony begins by holding one of the flags high
over head. The class yells out the country that the flag represents, and then they name
the city. Once the destination is established, the ambassador calls the name of the new
Junior Officer who is assigned to that post.
There is screaming, jumping, and running to the front as the new officer receives his/her
flag. Hand shakes and hugs are shared by many.
Of course, I have my cheat sheet. I have a list of the countries we have bid high. Next to
each I have drawn that country's flag. Now, I just wait. As flags are held, and officers are
called, I continue to cross off those countries which are no longer available to us.
I am becoming quite nervous. (Not many of our "high" countries are still on my list.)
After 2/3 of the class has been called, (and we are down to 1 high flag left on our list!)
FINALLY the ambassador holds up the flag for Nigeria.
The city of Lagos is named, and Dan's name is announced.
I was in shell-shock. It did not hit me until that very moment that we are now moving to
Africa. I think I am going to faint. But, all is well. We are both very happy with our post.
We have our assignment and Dan starts different areas of training right after
the "swearing in" ceremony next Friday.
We are scheduled to leave for Lagos, Nigeria in mid-September.
This will be a very busy time as we gather information, fill in countless forms for
our move, and begin shopping for all those things we think we cannot live without.
But the beauty is that I have ample opportunities to make MANY more lists!!!
Stories and updates to continue...
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